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Do any of these sound like you?
Do you struggle with avoiding the conversations you need to have in your relationship?
Do you find yourself feeling resentful of your spouse for past behaviour?
Are you someone who generally avoids conflict and is this pattern finally caught up with you?
Are you holding onto resentment, disappointment or anger from the past?
What happens when we avoid?
- By avoiding the important and necessary conversations with our spouse, children, family and friends, we stifle our own growth as well as the growth of these relationships
- We may think that by side stepping these conversations we buy ourselves short term relief and comfort when we are actually making things worse
- Even though a part of you knows you need to have these conversations, you don't because you have been taken over by fear and a lack of confidence of starting them and seeing them through to a successful resolution
- Your anxiety takes over and you ignore your own internal signals coming from your body, emotions, and thoughts that tell you that the truth needs to be spoken
- Having been someone who avoids conflict, you may also be lacking the necessary communication and listening skills that would give you the confidence in initiating a difficult conversation
If you're caught in this pattern
It is very likely that you were not taught how to have these conversations by your family. We’re certainly not taught these skills in school. This was certainly my experience. My family did not model how to have these important conversations either and so I had to learn from scratch the hard way.
I Struggled for Years
I struggled for years with partners and my current partner how to deliver my experience, emotions, truth and needs in such a way that it could be heard. We all need to learn these important skills and to cultivate the confidence that comes with using them and having successful experiences.
The Good News?
You can acquire these skills and confidence with this unique learning opportunity. There is a solution. You can learn to approach these conversations with the right mindset, emotional state and tools that will allow you to see them through to a satisfying and successful resolution.
Oh, and did I mention that it can be done in 6 easy steps?
Experience Greater Ease
By learning this model you will
- Experience greater ease, confidence and satisfaction in your relationship when it comes to having what you consider the difficult conversations.
- You will be freed up and empowered to finally approach the conversations that really matter and that contribute to greater harmony with your loved ones.
- By freeing up your energy, you will have that much more vitality and optimism when it comes to working through the normal conflict that every relationship goes through. With time and practice, you will also reach a point.
Hello, I'm Jack Lafleur
After decades of struggling with engrained patterns of defensiveness and avoidance, I developed a low self esteem when it came to being in relationships and believing that what I had to offer wasn’t good enough. Even though I was a trained therapist and have been working on my issues for years, I continued to run into the same blocks which stripped me of all confidence in being able to be good partner. I was pretty depressed.
I discovered a new approach and mindset that not only allowed me to move past my fear of having difficult conversations but also helped restore my self esteem and confidence in being able to deal with conflict.
I created a 12 week program for Couples to support men and women
in their pursuit to living healthier and more fulfilling relationships
After 20 years of working with hundreds of couples, I am super excited to show you how to revolutionize how you have the important and necessary conversations in your relationship so that you can live with more vitality and harmony.
The Inarguable Method Consists of 6 steps
These steps will incorporate different components that are key to a successful conversation such as: Mindset, Structure, Steps, Safety measures, Emotional Intelligence.
This method draws from all of the leading edge techniques regarding effective non-violent communication, self regulation, active/empathetic listening and successful conflict resolution.
You will learn
- A structure of how to have difficult conversations
- The ability to have the conversation and resolve conflict
- Greater courage and confidence in having the conversation
It took years of struggle and doing my own therapy to formulate this method but you can now easily get access to this method by signing up for my Masterclass
It took years of struggle and doing my own therapy to formulate this method but you can now easily get access to this method by signing up for my Masterclass.
By participating in this Masterclass you will
- Acquire the steps that you can easily follow and apply immediately and for the rest of your life
- These tools will never become obsolete and will benefit you in all your relationships
- You will notice an immediate effect on how well your conversations with others will go
- You will gain confidence where there was once anxiety, ease where there was once difficulty and struggle, and deeper connection where there was once distance and disconnection
How I've Helped Other Couples
I worked with a couple recently, “Albert & Rachel”*, who were having great difficulty addressing issues surrounding physical and sexual intimacy.
This couple had become stuck in a negative pattern of attacking each other and emotional withdrawal for years.
What had not been named and fully acknowledged and what had taken over this relationship was trauma
- Rachel had experienced childhood sexual abuse which had never really been dealt with and so by helping Rachel to name and acknowledge her traumatic past, it began the slow process of healing and recovery
- This process then led to creating more safety in having conversations that were being avoided
- Albert felt that he had been walking on eggshells with Rachel and as a result had emotionally withdrawn as a way of coping
- Finally after a lot of work and telling the truth, Rachel learned to accept and work with her trauma and Albert learned how to be more emotionally available and present
A big part of their recovery as a couple was due to the application of the Inarguable Method
*Names were changed to protect identities
FAQ
The cost for the Masterclass is $97 CAD. You can register and save your spot by clicking here.
Yes, there will be a designated period of Q & A.
I will be addressing this towards the end of the Webinar. For now, our main focus is having you learn the Inarguable Method.
